Tagged: tarot spread

Temptation Tailspin Tarot

couple on romantic date

you give me fever
when you kiss me
fever when you hold me tight
fever in the morning
fever all through the night

It happens. You go on yet another first date, zero expectations because you know you’ll invariably feel let down otherwise… when BHAM! someone crosses your path who is totally hot and totally into you. Girlfriend, you’d better have a game plan for this – if nothing else then to keep your legs shut on the first date! Or you will if you want to see him again… Continue reading

Why your ex gets in touch just when you’ve found someone new and how to know what he is after

love triangle

This post was inspired by a question from a reader. She wanted to know why her ex’s always seemed to get back in touch every time she had found someone new. My reply was:

Oh, it is simple. They feel the energetic connection fading and they want to know why – on a subconscious level of course… but they’ll still act on it!

If you stayed emotionally attached to your ex and found it hard to let go after the break-up, it is likely you had a push-you-pull-me relationship varying from slightly to highly co-dependent where he was in an avoidance pattern (expressed as commitment phobia) and you were in pattern of neediness (often based on abandonment issues). Continue reading

The Higher Love Tarot Spread

Deck used: The Gilded Tarot Royale by Ciro Marchetti

Deck used: The Gilded Tarot Royale by Ciro Marchetti

As we ascend into higher dimensions, the sort of questions we ask of the cards are bound to change. The shift, which has already been in progress for some time now, is already starting to move the questions about love and relationships we ask of the Tarot away from ‘What can I get from this?’ or ‘Will things go my way?’ to ‘How can I make sure that the outcome serves the highest good of all concerned?’

The Tarot spread you see above is centered around the latter and will eventually become the only Love & Relationship Tarot Spread we need after ascension into the Fifth dimension has been completed. It’s basic and more cards positions can be added for detail but it gives you an idea of the purpose of a 5D relationship reading. This is what each of the card positions mean: Continue reading

Codependency Tarot Therapy

Deck used: Vampire Tarot by Robert M. Place

Deck used: Vampire Tarot by Robert M. Place

It’s no secret that most relationship troubles stem from the fact that we try to make the other person responsible for our own happiness. To a certain extent we are all codependent… and very few of us have reached that place where we go, ‘Hey, wait a minute – until I take responsibility for this, I’m just running around in circles!’

Instead we request a reading, asking for when the next one will come along so that we can finally be happy. Yeah, we’re all a bit fucked up like that ;)

But fear not… Tarot to the rescue!

This little spread will help you unfuck that tendency to look for happiness in anybody but yourself. Using a dark deck is always a good idea when it comes to exploring our own Shadow.

Here are the meanings for each card position: Continue reading

The Love You Deserve Tarot Spread


Over the holidays, I watched ‘The Perks of Being a Wallflower’ with my eldest daughter and it had enough of an impact to affect my dreams that night. One quote in particular stood out:

We accept the love we think we deserve.

The truth of this statement is proven to me on an almost daily basis by the questions asked by clients who seek to redeem an abusive or toxic relationship, wondering if their abusive lover will return to them… Continue reading