First of all, congratulations on being single again! It really isn’t as bad as you think it is. If you were to objectively weigh the pros and cons right now, you’d realise that you’re probably better off without him or her… but let’s save that one for another day. After all, the reason you’re reading this post is that you want him or her back, right?
So let me break it down for you in simple do and don’ts:
Don’t call him/her to plead about getting back together: The first thing you need to know is that there is nothing as unattractive as desperation. No amount of pleading or reasoning in the world is going to bring your ex back – in fact, it will only drive him or her further away! However, if you’ve already done this, you may still be able to salvage your relationship so stop cringing at your own behaviour, take a deep breath and resolve to move forward in a more dignified manner. Continue reading