Chemistry. You either have it or you don’t. To most people, it is the key deciding factor of whether they will pursue a romantic relationship with someone or not. The problem is that it’s not always straight forward. Sometimes you feel the chemistry and the other person doesn’t – and vice versa. It truly doesn’t matter if he or she ticks all the boxes on your ‘wish list’ – if the chemistry ain’t there, it ain’t gonna happen!
Today’s vlog introduces the principle of Elemental tension as the key underlying factor for sexual chemistry in the cards. I cover the Elemental difference between relationship harmony (nice for friendship) and sexual tension (totally necessary for chemistry). Once you have this easy-to-learn principle down pat, reading for chemistry will be a doddle. If you enjoy the video, please hop on over to YouTube, click like and subscribe. Thank you! Continue reading
Glad to see you here, man! That means you’re waking up. You’re rubbing the sleep out of your eyes and as you do, you begin to see clearly that you’ve been had by patriarchal misogynist propaganda. It never was she that needed lessons in how long to wait before having sex to not appear ‘slutty’ – it was you who needed to learn to open your heart and see sex as an expression of love.
There can be no sex without a lesson about love. Just because you have refused to see it in the past doesn’t mean the opportunity for growth and learning wasn’t there. Those of you who used to lead a zombified existence of ‘hit and quit,’ blaming the woman for being slutty and justifying treating her like dirt are now starting to wake up to the pain of your own cold-heartedness. Continue reading
There will be men who seek to possess you, not because of love but because of their own need and insecurities. They will not see the real you, only the portion of you that can meet their need.
You will fall for this until you have resolved your need to be needed.
There will be men who will want you in the capacity of muse, for their inspiration so that they themselves will not have to dig deep but can channel your creative energy instead. Continue reading
A full solar eclipse in the sign of Scorpio (ruler of sex, death and transformation) is not to be trifled with. Not all of the effects brought on by this eclipse will be felt by all people on earth but everyone will experience being thrown into the pressure cooker of this highly transformational eclipse, one way or another.
So what does this mean in terms of relationship turbulence, transformation and transcendence?
Sexual dynamics will change and having loveless sex will be experienced as quite painful on the level of emotions, even by those who normally get away with it. This is because the soul will be made aware of the true purpose of sex from deep within itself. Cheap counterfeits won’t be gladly accepted any more. Continue reading
Which cards will reveal that what you think of as romance or even true love, is really a thinly veiled power dynamic with all the trappings of a passionate love affair? Before asking the cards, you will have probably already experienced the push-me-pull-you dynamic present in any relationship with power as a core theme. It could even be less subtle, in which case you would probably refer to this is a love/hate relationship.
Before looking at individual cards, I want to make clear that all relationship dynamics serve a purpose and hence there is no judgement associated with any of them. They exist to teach us valuable lessons and have been created by subconscious portions of the self, looking for an expression in order to be brought to the light and healed.
In the Tarot, cards indicating a (sexual) power dynamic often relate to the Mars cards. Mars is the masculine expression of the sexual energy and is found in both genders but to a higher degree in men since it is directly related to blood testosterone levels.
The Mars cards are: Continue reading