There will be men who seek to possess you, not because of love but because of their own need and insecurities. They will not see the real you, only the portion of you that can meet their need.
You will fall for this until you have resolved your need to be needed.
There will be men who will want you in the capacity of muse, for their inspiration so that they themselves will not have to dig deep but can channel your creative energy instead. Continue reading
A full solar eclipse in the sign of Scorpio (ruler of sex, death and transformation) is not to be trifled with. Not all of the effects brought on by this eclipse will be felt by all people on earth but everyone will experience being thrown into the pressure cooker of this highly transformational eclipse, one way or another.
So what does this mean in terms of relationship turbulence, transformation and transcendence?
Sexual dynamics will change and having loveless sex will be experienced as quite painful on the level of emotions, even by those who normally get away with it. This is because the soul will be made aware of the true purpose of sex from deep within itself. Cheap counterfeits won’t be gladly accepted any more. Continue reading
Which cards will reveal that what you think of as romance or even true love, is really a thinly veiled power dynamic with all the trappings of a passionate love affair? Before asking the cards, you will have probably already experienced the push-me-pull-you dynamic present in any relationship with power as a core theme. It could even be less subtle, in which case you would probably refer to this is a love/hate relationship.
Before looking at individual cards, I want to make clear that all relationship dynamics serve a purpose and hence there is no judgement associated with any of them. They exist to teach us valuable lessons and have been created by subconscious portions of the self, looking for an expression in order to be brought to the light and healed.
In the Tarot, cards indicating a (sexual) power dynamic often relate to the Mars cards. Mars is the masculine expression of the sexual energy and is found in both genders but to a higher degree in men since it is directly related to blood testosterone levels.
The Mars cards are: Continue reading
OK, so the The Hanged Man is not the most fun fella in the deck and there is almost always a feeling of being stuck when he shows up. Trust me, I know – The Hanged Man is my Shadow Birth Card!
Because of all the difficult lessons he has brought me, I chose to feature one of the most cheerful Hanged Men out there (renamed the Hanged One) from the Wild Green Chagallian Tarot – a fabulous Majors Only limited edition deck.
But it’s not all doom and gloom and in a relationship reading The Hanged Man offers a chance of gaining a new perspective that can help move the relationship onward to the next level. Continue reading