Although no one wants to be in this place in his or her relationship ever, it happens, and it’s better
to know how to deal with it if it ever does. That terrifying moment when you find out that your partner is cheating on you.
I really wish no one the hurt of going through a cheat, but I really think that there needs to be some thought process put behind preparing yourself mentally for this situation. Not to be paranoid – just to make sure you deal with your situation in the best possible way. So, here are some tips to take into consideration when it comes to cheating. Hopefully you’ll find that they work. Continue reading
If you are single and even remotely interested in spirituality, it is likely that you have been encouraged somewhere along the line to ‘call in your Soul Mate.’ There are a few problems with this however. The most obvious, beside most people not having a clue what a soul mate actually is, is that none of the available singles from your soul group may be ready for the forever love you happen to be ready for.
Emotional cheating has exploded onto the scene as the number one threat to long term committed relationships, with the social media revolution and (re)connecting with ‘friends’ and ex lovers on Facebook and other social media networks.
It all starts innocently enough, or so we tell ourselves. But the truth is that even before we start testing the waters with other person, we know that something is not quite right with the dynamic of the relationship we are in. We feel unhappy and discontented… perhaps even disconnected from the one we supposedly love, whether a spouse or a long term partner. Either way, the deep emotional connection we long for is missing.
Three common reasons for this state of discontentment/emotional disconnect are: Continue reading
In these days of Online Dating it’s a bit too easy for people to quickly go on the Internet to find the next one before they are over their ex. The people who do this fall into one of two different categories:
a) the ones who don’t realise they are not over their ex
b) the ones who know for a fact they are not but won’t hesitate to use another person to try to get over their ex or just distract themselves from the pain
You need to watch out for both kinds because involvement with either type usually ends in tears. Yes, there are exceptions to the rule but here is why it’s not worth taking a gamble: Continue reading
The Tarot is a set of 78 Keys for unlocking any blocks to perfect alignment with your Higher Self. In relationship readings, the goal should always be find the simplest solution (hint: the ego loves to complicate things) – this is the true essence of divination and in a nutshell how it differs from fortune-telling which is not concerned with spiritual laws, only with personal gain. Divination helps you align with the truth of your Higher Self and to live with integrity and this is how I choose to use the Tarot.
This is why the question you ask of the Tarot is paramount because not all questions can help you align with your Higher Self. Asking, ‘How can I make sure my lover stays faithful to me while my husband keeps supporting me financially?‘ (and many variations of this question) is quite possibly the perfect example of a question that simply cannot align you with the Truth. It is also, sadly, a question I get asked very often and the main reason why I have chosen to screen questions from prospective clients before I agree reading on them. Continue reading