Although no one wants to be in this place in his or her relationship ever, it happens, and it’s better
to know how to deal with it if it ever does. That terrifying moment when you find out that your partner is cheating on you.
I really wish no one the hurt of going through a cheat, but I really think that there needs to be some thought process put behind preparing yourself mentally for this situation. Not to be paranoid – just to make sure you deal with your situation in the best possible way. So, here are some tips to take into consideration when it comes to cheating. Hopefully you’ll find that they work. Continue reading
In these days of Online Dating it’s a bit too easy for people to quickly go on the Internet to find the next one before they are over their ex. The people who do this fall into one of two different categories:
a) the ones who don’t realise they are not over their ex
b) the ones who know for a fact they are not but won’t hesitate to use another person to try to get over their ex or just distract themselves from the pain
You need to watch out for both kinds because involvement with either type usually ends in tears. Yes, there are exceptions to the rule but here is why it’s not worth taking a gamble: Continue reading
Ladies, instead of complaining about there being so few good men left, use the Tarot to help you find the few remaining ones! This Tarot spread sorts the men from the boys, the good from the bad and the emotionally intelligent from the clueless. The latter being the ones who know neither themselves nor what they want from life but operate at an opportunistic level and don’t care much about potential collateral damage.
Step 1 – Decide which significator to use. The significator is chosen from among the 16 Court Cards in the Minor Arcana. To make it easy for you, I have compiled a list you can use based on his Zodiac sign. Continue reading
Today’s love &relationship Tarot spread is for looking at how you connect with your lover across the Elemental spectrum and what you can do to tweak/improve the connection. In the image above, I’m working with the Victorian Romantic Tarot but any Tarot deck will do.
1. Separate all the 2′s from the deck and shuffle them until you don’t know which one is on top. Stop when you feel that you have shuffled enough and turn the top card over. This card represents where your connection is the strongest.
Pentacles = Physical
Cups = Emotional
Swords = Intellectual
Wands = Spiritual
In the example above, the chosen card is the 2 of Pentacles, showing us that the physical connection is the strongest component of this particular relationship. Continue reading
Chemistry. You either have it or you don’t. To most people, it is the key deciding factor of whether they will pursue a romantic relationship with someone or not. The problem is that it’s not always straight forward. Sometimes you feel the chemistry and the other person doesn’t – and vice versa. It truly doesn’t matter if he or she ticks all the boxes on your ‘wish list’ – if the chemistry ain’t there, it ain’t gonna happen!
Today’s vlog introduces the principle of Elemental tension as the key underlying factor for sexual chemistry in the cards. I cover the Elemental difference between relationship harmony (nice for friendship) and sexual tension (totally necessary for chemistry). Once you have this easy-to-learn principle down pat, reading for chemistry will be a doddle. If you enjoy the video, please hop on over to YouTube, click like and subscribe. Thank you! Continue reading