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Lenormand Meanings for Love & Relationships

Click HERE to download a free copy of the Deviled Ham Lenormand to use with Orphalese

Click HERE to download a free copy of the Deviled Ham Lenormand to use with Orphalese

The Lenormand system of divination based on playing cards keeps gaining popularity so it seems timely to introduce these cards here, with meanings that are specific to love & relationships. If you are completely new to the these cards, you’ll be pleased to know that I’m introducing the Lenormand oracle on my Facebook page with daily 3 card practice draws and tips on how to learn to read with the ‘Lennies’ as they are affectionately known.¬† Continue reading

When Sex Hurts

woman in pain

Before I delve into the delicate topic of women suffering from pain during sex, let me talk about what this article is not about; It’s not about BDSM or any kind of consensual pain-inflicting kink. Those of you who are hoping to for anything to get yourselves off with, are probably better off reaching for that worn and tattered copy of Fifty Shades of Grey.

It is estimated that somewhere between 10-20% of all women suffer from painful sex.¬†While there are multiple articles online listing possible reasons for pain during intercourse, very few of them discuss this topic as an issue that concerns both parties, even though the pain can often be avoided by the man simply being better informed about a woman’s need for foreplay. While the man is rarely the root cause of the pain, he is responsible for making sure that the woman is not only pain-free but actually enjoy being intimate with him.

There are number of possible causes for discomfort and pain during intercourse and they can be divided into two main categories: Continue reading