Although no one wants to be in this place in his or her relationship ever, it happens, and it’s better
to know how to deal with it if it ever does. That terrifying moment when you find out that your partner is cheating on you.
I really wish no one the hurt of going through a cheat, but I really think that there needs to be some thought process put behind preparing yourself mentally for this situation. Not to be paranoid – just to make sure you deal with your situation in the best possible way. So, here are some tips to take into consideration when it comes to cheating. Hopefully you’ll find that they work. Continue reading
Before I delve into the delicate topic of women suffering from pain during sex, let me talk about what this article is not about; It’s not about BDSM or any kind of consensual pain-inflicting kink. Those of you who are hoping to for anything to get yourselves off with, are probably better off reaching for that worn and tattered copy of Fifty Shades of Grey.
It is estimated that somewhere between 10-20% of all women suffer from painful sex. While there are multiple articles online listing possible reasons for pain during intercourse, very few of them discuss this topic as an issue that concerns both parties, even though the pain can often be avoided by the man simply being better informed about a woman’s need for foreplay. While the man is rarely the root cause of the pain, he is responsible for making sure that the woman is not only pain-free but actually enjoy being intimate with him.
There are number of possible causes for discomfort and pain during intercourse and they can be divided into two main categories: Continue reading
In these days of Online Dating it’s a bit too easy for people to quickly go on the Internet to find the next one before they are over their ex. The people who do this fall into one of two different categories:
a) the ones who don’t realise they are not over their ex
b) the ones who know for a fact they are not but won’t hesitate to use another person to try to get over their ex or just distract themselves from the pain
You need to watch out for both kinds because involvement with either type usually ends in tears. Yes, there are exceptions to the rule but here is why it’s not worth taking a gamble: Continue reading
Upon turning 15, we should have been handed a Dating Manual and a ‘Guide to How Men Think.’ However, most of us have had to learn the hard way what doesn’t work when it comes to dating. Here’s your chance to learn from other women’s mistakes. Or, if you are a slow learner, a reminder of past mistakes that you are better off giving a miss if you truly wish to manifest a loving relationship. Continue reading
Many of you will remember being in your teens or early twenties, turning around in a crowded room and meeting a pair of eyes – eyes that sparkled and magnetised you to them. To someone watching from the outside, it may even have appeared as if you were pulled together by two silent and secret but too-strong-to-resist magnets… quite possibly located at the level of the heart.
You would have been young enough to just accept this for what it was – instant attraction. The mind may not have intervened at all to ‘protect’ you because you had not yet tasted the pain that love could bring – instead you simply accepted this as the start of a beautiful love story and put it down to love at first sight. Continue reading