Today’s love &relationship Tarot spread is for looking at how you connect with your lover across the Elemental spectrum and what you can do to tweak/improve the connection. In the image above, I’m working with the Victorian Romantic Tarot but any Tarot deck will do.
1. Separate all the 2′s from the deck and shuffle them until you don’t know which one is on top. Stop when you feel that you have shuffled enough and turn the top card over. This card represents where your connection is the strongest.
Pentacles = Physical
Cups = Emotional
Swords = Intellectual
Wands = Spiritual
In the example above, the chosen card is the 2 of Pentacles, showing us that the physical connection is the strongest component of this particular relationship. Continue reading
you give me fever
when you kiss me
fever when you hold me tight
fever in the morning
fever all through the night
It happens. You go on yet another first date, zero expectations because you know you’ll invariably feel let down otherwise… when BHAM! someone crosses your path who is totally hot and totally into you. Girlfriend, you’d better have a game plan for this – if nothing else then to keep your legs shut on the first date! Or you will if you want to see him again… Continue reading
This post was inspired by a question from a reader. She wanted to know why her ex’s always seemed to get back in touch every time she had found someone new. My reply was:
Oh, it is simple. They feel the energetic connection fading and they want to know why – on a subconscious level of course… but they’ll still act on it!
If you stayed emotionally attached to your ex and found it hard to let go after the break-up, it is likely you had a push-you-pull-me relationship varying from slightly to highly co-dependent where he was in an avoidance pattern (expressed as commitment phobia) and you were in pattern of neediness (often based on abandonment issues). Continue reading
Are you married or in a long-term relationship and less than delighted with how things are going? No matter what your situation is, this Tarot Spread can help you start turning things around by switching the focus from blaming your partner or outer circumstances to owning your own stuff.
*Magickal Tarot Tip*: It’s ideal to perform this type of reading on a Friday between 9-10 PM – the hour of the Goddess Venus. Light a pink candle and invoke the Goddess of Love for guidance and protection, if you like. Don’t forget to thank Her when you have completed your reading!
SAMPLE READING: Continue reading
“Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away.”
~ Elbert Hubbard
This Tarot spread is one you can use to look at different ways of giving more in the relationship. So much relationship advice out there is about making sure you get what you need. We live in a society that bombards us with commercial ‘me-me-me!‘ messages… “Because you’re worth it!”
It’s no wonder that many relationships soon run on empty when everybody’s in it for what they can get.
Here’s the remedy:
1. What your beloved needs/wants right now
2. What you are already doing giving that is helpful to your beloved
3. Something you could start doing or do more of to brighten up the life of your beloved
4. Something that you need to start doing less of or stop doing because it’s harming your relationship in some way
5. Delight and surprise your beloved by doing this (this weekend, next anniversary, or no other reason to show your love and appreciation)