Category: Sexuality

Improve Your Sex Life with the Tarot

I just love how versatile the Tarot is! There are virtually no limits to what you can do and learn with a deck of 78 cards.

For those of you who are over a certain age there is a range of erotic Tarot decks to choose from. My personal favourite is the Tarot of Sexual Magic by Lo Scarabeo.

In the image above, I’m presenting a little two card Tarot exercise that you can do with any deck but an erotic/adult Tarot deck will give you visual clues as well. It’s up to you if you do this exercise on your own, with your partner or even with your girlfriends. For those of you who are using a traditional or non-adult deck, please feel free to check the card meanings on this site for sexual meanings.


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Tarot for Sexual Ecstasy

woman leaping through space ecstasy

Ecstasy (not the drug) has been on my mind a lot lately. I feel blessed because, being creative, I know many things which transport me to a state of bliss and ecstasy – foremost of which are creative passion itself and sex (both Fire Element). But as you know if you’ve been around for a while, it is entirely possible to have the sex without the ecstasy (boo!). Wouldn’t it be interesting to look a bit deeper to find out how to get to that state where you feel like the dancer in the image above during love-making? Continue reading

When Sex Hurts

woman in pain

Before I delve into the delicate topic of women suffering from pain during sex, let me talk about what this article is not about; It’s not about BDSM or any kind of consensual pain-inflicting kink. Those of you who are hoping to for anything to get yourselves off with, are probably better off reaching for that worn and tattered copy of Fifty Shades of Grey.

It is estimated that somewhere between 10-20% of all women suffer from painful sex. While there are multiple articles online listing possible reasons for pain during intercourse, very few of them discuss this topic as an issue that concerns both parties, even though the pain can often be avoided by the man simply being better informed about a woman’s need for foreplay. While the man is rarely the root cause of the pain, he is responsible for making sure that the woman is not only pain-free but actually enjoy being intimate with him.

There are number of possible causes for discomfort and pain during intercourse and they can be divided into two main categories: Continue reading

Basics of Sexual Chemistry and Tension in the Tarot (Video)

image that captures the concept of chemistry and physical attraction

Chemistry. You either have it or you don’t. To most people, it is the key deciding factor of whether they will pursue a romantic relationship with someone or not. The problem is that it’s not always straight forward. Sometimes you feel the chemistry and the other person doesn’t – and vice versa.  It truly doesn’t matter if he or she ticks all the boxes on your ‘wish list’ – if the chemistry ain’t there, it ain’t gonna happen!

Today’s vlog introduces the principle of Elemental tension as the key underlying factor for sexual chemistry in the cards. I cover the Elemental difference between relationship harmony (nice for friendship) and sexual tension (totally necessary for chemistry). Once you have this easy-to-learn principle down pat, reading for chemistry will be a doddle. If you enjoy the video, please hop on over to YouTube, click like and subscribe. Thank you! Continue reading

How Long Should You Wait Before Having Sex With Her?

image of hot couple making out

Glad to see you here, man! That means you’re waking up. You’re rubbing the sleep out of your eyes and as you do, you begin to see clearly that you’ve been had by patriarchal misogynist propaganda. It never was she that needed lessons in how long to wait before having sex to not appear ‘slutty’ – it was you who needed to learn to open your heart and see sex as an expression of love.

There can be no sex without a lesson about love. Just because you have refused to see it in the past doesn’t mean the opportunity for growth and learning wasn’t there. Those of you who used to lead a zombified existence of ‘hit and quit,’ blaming the woman for being slutty and justifying treating her like dirt are now starting to wake up to the pain of your own cold-heartedness. Continue reading