Category: Heart Healing

Relationship Shadow Tarot Exercise

Today we are going to continue Tuesday’s theme, both in terms of working on removing blocks to love and also by working with the cards in a rather minimalist way. Again, I have chosen to work with the Sirian Starseed Tarot for this little exercise.

The Sirian works very well for questions that take an interest in reaching higher planes of awareness, which is certainly useful for when we want to break free of old, useless patterns of relating! Continue reading

Less is More – A One Card Love Tarot Reading

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~ Rumi

The above quote by Rumi, and also working in-depth during last weekend’s Tarot conference with answering the Big Questions with only one card under Rachel Pollack‘s wise and guiding eye, made me want to explore a One Card reading for myself about the one question that should concern us more than any other when it comes to love relationships:

What is my main block to love right here, right now?

I chose to work with the Sirian Starseed Tarot for this and pulled the 7 of Cups.

What does the 7 of Cups tell me about my main block to love right now? Off the top of my head, I can think of three things: Continue reading

DIY Love Lyrics Tarot Spread

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Sometimes we know that something is slightly off kilter in the relationship but we don’t even know which questions to ask to make it right again.

If you have a music app like which randomises songs, you can use it as an oracle to make your own Tarot spread. The randomly chosen songs can help you focus on the area of relating that is causing problems.

In order for this to work you have to suspend analytical thought for a while and surrender to synchronicity. Along a strictly logical line of thought, it may not make much sense to allow every third song on your Spotify love songs playlist tell you what needs fixing in your love life.

When I tried this for myself, the Great Oracle of Spotify gave me Continue reading

Letting Your Ex Go Once & For All

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He moved on and is flaunting his new girlfriend on Facebook but you are still missing him. There is a hole in your heart and it is shaped like him. If anything the pain seems to grow sharper and you have no idea how to let go of the feelings you still have for him.

Is this you?

The Tarot can help you understand why you are still hooked on your ex and what you need to do in order to let go.

Here is what you do: Continue reading

Love in the Language of Flowers

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Having a great love for flowers and oracle cards, I remember how excited I was when I came across the Flower Spirit Cards by Melanie Eclare many years ago. Sadly, they are now out of print but you can still buy used copies cheap on Amazon.

Connecting with the spirits of flowers is one of the quickest way to open the heart to love – like laughter, flowers have the power to evaporate negativity and blocks to love.

Earth laughs in flowers.

- David LaCapelle

The more we choose to open our hearts to love in one area of our life, the easier it becomes to open the heart to unconditional love at all times, no matter what the situation. The Heart Chakra is not unlike a muscle in that it becomes stronger every time we choose to love.

Try pulling a card (or rune, or stave) each for how to create more loving relationships in these three areas: Continue reading