Category: Heart Healing

Not Really Lost – Using the Tarot to Heal after ‘Losing’ a Soul Mate

soul mates - loss of a soul mate

Victor Hugo speaks of soul mate love more beautifully than any other author I know. When Marius and Cosette have that first meeting and they first kiss, they become one as only soul mates can. Both are innocent, pure and open to love, which enabled the following dynamic to develop:

These two hearts poured themselves out to each other, so that at the end of an hour, it was the young man who had the young girl’s soul and the young girl who had the soul of the young man. Continue reading

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Wheel of the Year Tarot (cropped)

The Lovers from the Wheel of the Year Tarot (cropped)

Today’s post is just a Valentine’s Day message from my heart to yours as I normally don’t post on a Thursday.

Remember that no matter what your ‘relationship status’ is, you can always experience more love simply by Continue reading

The Love You Deserve Tarot Spread


Over the holidays, I watched ‘The Perks of Being a Wallflower’ with my eldest daughter and it had enough of an impact to affect my dreams that night. One quote in particular stood out:

We accept the love we think we deserve.

The truth of this statement is proven to me on an almost daily basis by the questions asked by clients who seek to redeem an abusive or toxic relationship, wondering if their abusive lover will return to them… Continue reading

A Christmas Love Wish

9 of Cups - Arcturian Tarot card image

9 of Cups (the ‘wish card’) – Arcturian Tarot

Dear God/Goddess,

My Christmas wish is that all women, young and old, will feel deeply loved this Christmas.
Help them realise that true love comes from within and has to begin with Self.
Give them eyes to see their own beauty with, as well as to reveal the true intentions of men that cross their path.
Show them how they grow in grace, beauty and unconditional love through acts of compassion and service. Continue reading

To see and be seen

image of two lovers looking at each other

Mysteries are not to be solved: The eye goes blind
when it only wants to see why.

~ Rumi

When was the last time you felt truly seen by a lover? When was the last time you had the courage to allow yourself to be seen?

When was the last time you looked into the soul of your lover? When was the last time you allowed a message of love surface from the depths of your lover’s heart through his eyes. Continue reading