
One of the most common questions I get asked as a Tarot reader is if a lover is right for them… ‘Is he the One?.’ I also sometimes get asked which out of two (or more) lovers is the best match. I must admit I hesitate to answer the question in terms of ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ because someone who is not right for longer term may still be right in terms of bringing a particular lesson…
That said, deep down we all wish that there is a way for us to know beyond any shadow of a doubt that he or she is the right one, the one our soul has been yearning for since as far back as we can remember. The good news is, you do have a way of knowing! All your life, you will have been drawn to one or more specific traits, quirks or characteristics, often without being able to explain why.
For instance, you may be able to look at the shape of a potential partner’s ears and just know that they are ‘wrong’ because in your mind you have a template of your soul mate’s ears. Or you could have a thing for a particular nationality. Continue reading →