After last week’s post about Givers, Takers and Matchers in Love and in the Tarot, it was suggested on my FB page that I write a post about signs that the person you are dating is a giver. The problem for me as a natural giver is that I tend to look for the positive first in everyone and that makes me believe everyone has good intentions. I’ve had to think long and hard about what separates us from the Takers and how they view us. I’ve also talked to friends about it to get a more detached perspective. The result is the following 10 signs: Continue reading
In all forms of relating, people can be divided into three main categories: Givers, Takers and Matchers. Apparently, according to Adam Grant, the ones who have the highest success rates in terms of establishing happy long-term relationships are also the ones with the highest number of failed relationships. Continue reading
Learning to trust again after you have suffered deep betrayal or cheating in love can be very tricky. One reason for this is the feeling of confusion after you find out that what you thought was real was a complete and utter sham – counterfeit love… You dreamed of True Love, got too close to the sun… You crashed and now you’re wondering if your wings will ever grow back out again. The fear of experiencing this kind of pain again could make it tempting for you to isolate yourself.
There is a way to start trusting again but the truth is that love will never be a risk-free venture. The best you can do is take your time in getting to know someone new before you go giving your heart away. In fact, make sure you know all of his friends and his family too! Leave no stone unturned to make sure he is worthy of your affection. In the end you will have to take a leap of faith but it’s up to you how big a leap. Do you really need to attempt the Grand Canyon and possibly end up with someone who was after your bank account, your daughter or a Visa from your country of birth? Continue reading
7 Signs that you are ready to meet your Twin Flame:
- You have just completed a major life lesson which allows you to radiate your True Self into the world from the core.
- You are so devoted to serving God that if you had to choose between being with a lover and service, you would choose service 10 times out of 10. Continue reading
How do they think, the sociopathic married males who go hunting for prey on dating websites and in nightclubs when away on business? And who on earth would be stupid enough to fall for them?
The slick seduction expert pulls out all the stops. He will wine and dine and be very generous when tipping. He wants to impress and overwhelm you to make you weak at the knees. He will feel different to your average Joe – larger than life, unafraid. He’s the natural born risk taker and adrenaline junkie. For a while, he will make your life glitter and sparkle… Your hopes and expectations will start to soar and the penny drops: he’s married – you’ve been played. Continue reading
It’s in the air… the buzzwords ‘be true to yourself,’ authenticity, vulnerability, courage… Whether or not you are interested in Astrology, you’re under the influence of the current Venus retrograde and you’re forced to dig a bit deeper if you long for intimacy. Any romantic relationships that are less than authentic are dissolved. It’s as if the projections that usually glue us together with people with matching issues and compatible projection patterns simply aren’t strong enough.
What Venus, that indomitable Love Goddess, wants us to do in Her retrograde Shadow is to discern and dissolve any blocks to love, to have the courage to be honest with ourselves so that we can release the negative patterns and to start relating more deeply – from the heart. Continue reading
10 Healthy Reasons People Stay Together
1. They are best friends and respect each other (2 of Cups, The Lovers, Justice)
2. They communicate well (King and Queen of Swords, Magician)
3. They play well together (3 of Cups) Continue reading