Category: Tarot Spreads
Not Really Lost – Using the Tarot to Heal after ‘Losing’ a Soul Mate
Victor Hugo speaks of soul mate love more beautifully than any other author I know. When Marius and Cosette have that first meeting and they first kiss, they become one as only soul mates can. Both are innocent, pure and open to love, which enabled the following dynamic to develop:
These two hearts poured themselves out to each other, so that at the end of an hour, it was the young man who had the young girl’s soul and the young girl who had the soul of the young man. Continue reading
Temptation Tailspin Tarot
you give me fever
when you kiss me
fever when you hold me tight
fever in the morning
fever all through the night
It happens. You go on yet another first date, zero expectations because you know you’ll invariably feel let down otherwise… when BHAM! someone crosses your path who is totally hot and totally into you. Girlfriend, you’d better have a game plan for this – if nothing else then to keep your legs shut on the first date! Or you will if you want to see him again… Continue reading
“What was the lesson?” Break-Up Tarot Spread
Deck used: Swedish Witch Tarot aka Jolanda den tredjes Tarot
No lengthy introduction needed for this spread. We’ve all been there… We thought he was the One and it turned out to be just another lesson. Sometimes it’s worth not looking over your shoulder but certain relationships leave you thinking there’s a lesson you were meant to get. If that’s how you feel then that’s your truth and you need to honour it… Tarot to the rescue! Continue reading
Beltane May King & Queen Tarot Spread for Attracting New Love
Deck used: Pictorial Key Tarot
Happy Beltane, Love Doves!
In the Pagan Wheel of the Year, Beltane is a time for love & fertility rituals. Because of this, I wanted to create a spread that was more than just a spread… a spread that can be used to draw the One to you as well as give you information about him (or her) and the how/when. So without further ado, let me introduce you to the May Queen & King Tarot Spread!
On Beltane Eve (that’s tonight!) light a pink candle and invoke the Goddess of Love. Take a moment to focus on your desire for a Soul Mate Lover and shuffle + cut the deck as usual. Continue reading
Why your ex gets in touch just when you’ve found someone new and how to know what he is after
This post was inspired by a question from a reader. She wanted to know why her ex’s always seemed to get back in touch every time she had found someone new. My reply was:
Oh, it is simple. They feel the energetic connection fading and they want to know why – on a subconscious level of course… but they’ll still act on it!
If you stayed emotionally attached to your ex and found it hard to let go after the break-up, it is likely you had a push-you-pull-me relationship varying from slightly to highly co-dependent where he was in an avoidance pattern (expressed as commitment phobia) and you were in pattern of neediness (often based on abandonment issues). Continue reading
